2009 – My Year in Review

This comes from an email I just wrote to an email pal from New Zealand. Here’s my update in multiple list form. I’m cross-posting this to Depression Common Sense since it mentions my depression situation.

Bad decisions:

  1. Continued serious relationship for 3 years – which turned out to be between 1 or 1 1/2 years too long.
  2. Moved to Tampa (3 1/2 hours away from kids) to make relationship work logistically.
  3. Bought a house, shopping club membership & timeshare with the woman.

Bad news:

  1. Relationship went into toilet – got worse and then worse.
  2. Was laid off from big $$$ job. Continue reading
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More Facebook Musings

Change is the Only Constant

Quit complaining that Facebook changes things. Embrace the new. When web developers work hard all day on a new feature only to have the community poo-poo it – for a site that’s free to begin with – it feels crappy. I know from experience. You don’t like it? Fine. Go build a better one yourself. Continue reading

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How I Manage to Enjoy Facebook – 9 Tips

Facebook can be highly enjoyable, but also very annoying. Between app invites, mystery friends and requests, friends blabbering on your ‘Live News’ page, there’s a lot that can get in the way of having a pleasant experience. Here’s are nine ways I manage to keep the noise to a minimum so I can enjoy what I enjoy about it: my friends.


Updated! 17-Nov-2009

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Mac OS X and Hardware Upgraded for Machiavellian Me by the Apple Store – Free!

Snow Leopard Upgrade

I pre-ordered the Snow Leopard upgrade when it became available months ago. When it arrived I tried to install it, but it didn’t work. I remembered that the optical drive on my MacBook is hinkey (yes, that’s a technical term).

The DVD sat on my desk since then. Then I thought, “hey!” I made an appointment with a genius at the Apple Store to see if they had a working optical drive they would connect for me so Snow Leopard could be installed. I wasn’t sure if they would be willing to do that. Continue reading

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